tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165725617520983238.post4949107586364440663..comments2023-04-26T09:19:34.854-04:00Comments on All Family Law, All Around Atlanta sm: Rules of Thumb (or any other digit of your choice)All Family Law, All Around Atlanta smhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01498173753446817258noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165725617520983238.post-52562755540750624032010-02-11T11:53:17.361-05:002010-02-11T11:53:17.361-05:00In the process of a divorce its always best to rem...In the process of a divorce its always best to remember the children don't need to be in the middle of it. Dispite the fighting over who gets the "China". The most important people involved who happens to be the children don't need to suffer anymore than they already have. Believe that they can feel all of our emotions whether we speak them or not. It will help to build a more positive force in the home and I'm sure it will be appreciated by the kids. <br /><br /><br />Great post.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16665134934179549110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165725617520983238.post-40613678372334745332010-02-10T21:35:38.441-05:002010-02-10T21:35:38.441-05:00After a wretched divorce (that sometimes feels lik...After a wretched divorce (that sometimes feels like the other party still wants it to drag on for infinity), I found out first hand that taking the high road with the kids really does work in the long run. My youngest has finally come to the conclusion on his own that the divorce was the very best choice for all involved. That high road was a long one at times, but it has paid off emotionally.<br /><br />Great post.Terihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01722162542135510165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1165725617520983238.post-51293366600165476972010-02-10T18:27:43.220-05:002010-02-10T18:27:43.220-05:00I just read your February 9 post and enjoyed the h...I just read your February 9 post and enjoyed the humor and truth in your tips. I especially appreciated the last point regarding the effect of an enduring, bad relationship on children. We don't often hear that divorce may be the best decision parents can make for their children, when in truth, so maney people wouldn't make the decision to divorce otherwise. The book you recommend to your clients, The Good Divorce, by Constance Ahrons, is a great resource for families. Her web site is constanceahrons.com. I look forward to you sharing more about how children can and mostly do thrive post-divorce and how the divorce process can be structured to help insure that desired outcome. Of course, transforming a bad marriage into a healthy happy one should be the first effort. But if that's not possible, transitioning out of the marriage with an eye on nurturing the children through the process is the next, right step. Thanks for a great post!Shelia Manelyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06347687418393923452noreply@blogger.com